Everyone have their own struggle, their own difficulties. The same goes to me.
I sometimes walk through a journey whereby I found myself screaming for a friend, screaming for an attention.
It is always easy to point at so and so saying that oh… he/she just need some attention. Then we will label him/her as someone that lack of love. In the actual fact, everyone is screaming for attention and everyone is craving for someone to love them, someone to understand them. Who are we to say so and so lack of love when we ourselves are also begging someone to take a look at us?
Sometimes when someone need a friend, as simple as a friend and yet we point at them saying that should blame back yourself for not spending enough time with us or should blame yourself because you didn't take the effort to make things work.
Where is the compassion heart that God placed it in? Where is the love from God? Where is my heart? Where is my love?
** Silently I cried out for love and attention**
3 comments:
ya.. do agreed with your statement in certain points: "everyone needs friend" and also "Where is the compassion heart that God placed it in?"
However, a lots of time we claimed that God didn't talk to us; but in fact, we didn't spend much time with God, that's why we don't know how God speak to us and don't even know God's heart. God is love, unless we block ourselves from receiving, God is more than willing to show His love and compassion to us. we shoudn't doubt or question God in this area...
Like wise, if we dun let people to get involve into our life by taking the first step to know them but only chose to hang around with those we like.. or if we dun share life or spend time with others.. how do we expect others to understand us when we need them..
I will encourage you to open up yourself and to take the first step to know others by going out to have more social activities.. though it's hard at the beginning.. but every good friend need time to develop..
Unless family members, every single person don't know each other eversince they were born.. it takes time to know each others, to love and to develop.
Take courage to know and to love others. For to give is more blessed than to receive.. you will reap the harvest in time to come...
Cheers. :)
Oh dear...I feel that both of you are highlighting something in my heart on certain people for the past 3 years.... o dear...!!!!
I am sure out there..there are many friends waiting and are compassionate.. It takes 2 hands to claps..BUT it is your choice.. Count! along your journey, how many people God had placed in your life to be compassionate to you? how many you have responded?
I think you might not realized that you actually expect other people to be compassionate to you..but have you been compassionate to others?
"Do to others as what you want others to do to you.."
Sad to say..wherever you are now.. you have not yet find friends where you use to have - often utter words that causes itchiness to your ears..but how can this be? is God not compassionate? Am sure He is.. maybe you choose not to have? else you have disappointed them?
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